Having Fun !

4,124 notes | posted 4 hours ago via: fuckyeahitsthevampirediaries | @fyelenandamon

thequeenofdrama:

#he’s so honest lmao #he doesnt even care if he hurts her feelings with it #but her feelings dont get hurt #so it doesnt matter #Elena knows that Damon will always be honest with her #no matter what #thats why they fit#because honestly #no one else would point out what shes doing like that #he does it because he loves her #and its because he loves her #that he’s honest with her#he can’t just coddle her #and treat her like shes four #he treats her like an adult#like the woman he knows she is #and because of this #she fights him #she fights him because even though he’s being honest and that he thinks enough of her to be honest with her #she still feels like she has a lot to prove to him #a lot to prove to everyone #she has to prove that she can do things on her own #its really important for her to not only prove this to everyone #but even more importantly prove it to herself

#YES #THIS#and people say he treats elena as a child #the contrary and tbh she is one #elena is a little girl who needs help not blind support #because she is still so young and you shouldn’t allow her to make mistakes if it costs too much #damon can’t support all her decisions because some of them are just crazy #you don’t treat someone as a child if you try to make him reason #damon stands up he voices his opinion and help elena grow #he challenges her he makes her question life beliefs #he wants to protects her and sometimes he may cross the limits but he’d risk his life to save hers#damon is honest he doesn’t buy elena’s bullshit #elena wants to play adult but in the end she achieves the exact opposite result by playing recklessly #and damon is there always putting the pieces together